BLAME AND THE BBC This is a must read! I took it from the brilliant Kathy Krajco 's site on my pet subject, Narcissism. I use many of her articles in my advocacy for abuse victim's work. This article starts with the BBC's media bullpocky but broadens its reach to so many political & personal areas... well, as I said, I consider it required reading. With Yom Kippur and forgiveness being talked about this time of year I felt this article on BLAME was brilliant and brutally honest. Blaming the victim has become so much a part of our society. Almost no one wants to take responsibility for the horrible things they do to others, it seems. And I, for one, am sick of it. To quote Carey from SEX & THE CITY : "Can we really forgive if we can't forget?" My answer? If the person(s) who harmed you doesn't take the time & energy make amends and shifts blame to you, in a word: NO . Teaching Children to Blame the Victim by Kathy Krajco Via Biased BBC...