Dangerous Message - Date From Hell? Again, the don't tell monster comes up. As I said before, telling may well save your life and be the first step to healing! Telling is crucial to surmount PTSD and your own validation. (October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month) by Vicki Polin, MA, NCC, LCPC, ATR-BC Click here to watch the video: Date From Hell A few weeks ago a rabbi sent the following link out to his mailing list promoting an online video, "Date From Hell" , which is produced by Rebbetzin Lori Palatnik. The short film revolved around the fact that everyone has an opinion and how important it is to keep your opinion to yourself or that you need to be extremely careful before offering it. Palatnik went on to say that: "You need to know the difference between fact and opinion". She goes on telling the story about a young male Baal Teshuva, who was learning with her husband, Rabbi Yaakov Palatnik. As time progressed Rabbi Palatnik felt the man had "pu...