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by Kathy Krajco [L]ike little children, narcissists view truth as a relative quantity, not an absolute. People whose thinking is thus screwed up go around talking about "your truth" and "my truth," "your reality" and "my reality." They have conveniently slipped from acknowledging that people have different points of view (and therefore different perspectives) into the logical error that they actually view different objects or events. I mentioned that such people think to determine THE truth by making their version bigger than yours. This is why people whose thinking is thus screwed up go around talking as though truth is determined by popular opinion. For example, here's the typical anti-American's favorite club: The whole world hates you Americans, so you're hateful. (Sorry, Charlie, the people full of hate are the hateful ones.) Anti-Americanism is collective narcissism, and we see the same behavior pattern in individu...

The Effect of Narcissism's Twisted Thinking on the Mind by Kathy Krajco Ideas don't just enter the mind and sit there, isolated. Information is an interesting word. It was a verb long before it acquired a noun form. "To inform" people meant to "in-form" their minds. To form, shape their minds with the ideas you fed them. Information does that. That's because the brain is essentially a biological computer. It's tremendously more sophisticated than any human-made computers we yet have, because it can learn and because it isn't limited to making a random choice whenever no other criteria direct the choice to be made. But we already have software that can learn, too. And the science of artificial intelligence is well on the road to doing astonishing things in the development of artificial "mind." No, you aren't going to see R2D2 rolling around the corner anytime soon, but something like that day is indeed coming. Yes, we are going to b...

It always amuses me is when a pathological person gets into court and tries to "sell" their twisted version of reality to a judge and ultimately gets called on it. Oh, the sicko NEVER admit they were wrong but it's heartening to see that some judges do not buy their lies. It's also validating because so many pathologicals make their victims crazy and push them over the edge by insisting it "never happened" or they "never said/ did that" or "it's them not me." The reasoning behind this one is beyond laughable. It's even sadder when these guys hide behind religion. (Any religion) HASIDIC 'RAPIST' FIT FOR TRIAL Shrinks aren't buying a 23-year-old Hasid's claim that he can't assist in his defense against charges of rape and child pornography because he's too devout to look at the photographic evidence. David Silverman, of Rockland County, has been found mentally fit to proceed on charges that he and two budd...

After my life was altered by a porn addict - I saw up close & personal the horrible effects of it on the psyche, one's empathy and the permanency of then seeing women as objects (even when they SAY different. I am left with PTSD and permanent scars on my psyche and sexuality. Get help if this is you or your partner - porn addiction is NOT normal. It is not "just something guys do." Life with a PA – the Dark Side of the Moon By FairyG We’ve just had yet another argument over his use of porn, and I don’t know what to do. I feel like I’m going insane with so many conflicting thoughts and emotions inside my head: anger, betrayal, love, compassion, self-loathing, fear, misery… will I lose my mind first, or my relationship? Why am I not good enough for him? How do I get him to hear me? How can he keep betraying me and not caring? I’ve tried to tell him so many times how I feel about it, hoping he might do something to change. How many arguments have we had about this? I’...

This one's for Obama and his followers!! by Kathy Krajco One reason collective thinking gets so screwed up is because the language we think with is corrupted by constant abuse by the foghorns in our communication media. Note what they do to concepts in the meaningful words they bastardize. They bleach all the meaning out of them till these words are no longer action verbs with concrete meaning but just buzz denoting some fuzzy abstract sentiment that is totally generic and interchangeable and which anyone can lie about having or deny having. Love. Hate. Forgiveness. Justice. Fairness. Just ask people what they think those words mean. First a fuzzy look as though the cloud is in your question instead of their heads and then a load of meaningless confusion beyond deplorable and all the way to the point of being ironic. Hence you have the farce of someone professing not to hate a person they are in the very act of rejecting. The farce of claiming to forgive a person they are in the ve...

After reading this article, I thought immediately of Senator Obama. And felt my stomach turn even more. Let me know what you think... I need some Imodium. Psychological Neoteny and Narcissistic Personality Disorder Professor Bruce Charlton, of the School of Biology at the University of Newcastle upon Tyne, England, via Discovery News : People such as academics, teachers, scientists and many other professionals are often strikingly immature outside of their strictly specialist competence in the sense of being unpredictable, unbalanced in priorities, and tending to overreact. Like we hadn't noticed? This phenomenon is called "psychological neoteny." A fancy name for pychological immaturity, the failure to ever form a "finished mind." In its natural state, the human brain and mind naturally reach full development in the early twenties - after a person's education by his or her parents and society is complete and he or she is out on their own in the world. This ...

HELICOPTER PARENTING + SICK CYBERBULLY = SUICIDE I originally posted the article by writer, Kathy Krajco, with an blog post this past June. The Megan Meier/ MySpace Suicide case made me think of it again. I have been following the tsunami of posts on the web and the outcry for justice for Megan Meier, who committed suicide just a little over a year ago due to being harrassed and taunted by an ADULT "friend of the family", Lori Drew and a few others helping Drew. For the last year Drew has been simply telling the Meier family to "give it a rest." The stress has led the Meiers to divorce and Lori has gone on her merry way, BLAMING MEGAN because "Megan was suicidal anyway." (Lori Drew is in advertising & marketing so we can be fairly sure she's used to embellishing things...) Lori Drew is, in my opinion, an INTERNET PREDATOR. They come in all shapes and sizes. After targetting, grooming, profiling and then setting up Megan; Lori started a fake My...

ANN COULTER IS A TRULY STUPID WOMAN In our home growing up, my Nana of blessed memory (who lived with us) would never allow my brother or I to use the word "stupid." We would be grounded or paddled with a wooden spoon. Stupid was up there with Carlin's 7 Dirty Words. So it is with great pride that I name Ann Coulter STUPID WOMAN of the year. In case you missed "The Big Idea" the other night here's her latest shoe down her throat gem (which would explain why she has an Adam's Apple, too): America would be better off if everyone were Christian Ann Coulter was interviewed tonight on CNBC’s “The Big Idea” show. She was asked what her vision of a “Perfect America” would be. Here is how she started her answer: “Everyone would be happy, Republican and we would look like America did during the NYC Republican convention.” Of course, it didn’t stop there, how could it with Ann Coulter on the show? Aside from her usual routine of stating that liberals suck...

SPEED COURSE IN DESPOTIC STUPIDITY Does Ahmadinejad really think we are this STUPID? Or maybe he's getting ready for a gig at The Comic Strip or Caroline's? We have had a former actor as president here in the U.S.A. Maybe he's getting ready for his next job as a comic? Unfortunately he's got dead homosexuals (that never existed - LOL), beaten & maimed women (Wow, what FREEDOM!), a trail of support to Hezbollah and other terrorist groups and his own history of kidnapping and torturing people to prove that he's no joke. This cowardly little puke indulged in 40 minutes of pure sociopathic SCHIZOPHASIA which fooled no one but himself. Spare us all and don't have this filth back in this country again. EVER. A LESSON IN ABSURDITY That was some show Iranian despot Mahmoud Ahmadinejad put on yes terday at Columbia University. We're not sure how students who heard him gained academically - but at least they were entertained. Ahmadinejad, on the other hand,...