BARBARA'S TCHATZKAHS

I tell this to every net-user I know. 6 years ago I watched an NYPD forensic assistant click up someone's real identity, address and phone number using no special software, in just two clicks - using a free site. And with commercially available software - they found everything this person had written online since 1998. As well supposedly "private" stuff they'd used their credit card for, going right back to their IP! Please people, be more careful out there. You are not as anonymous as you think. How a dirty SMS can come back to haunt you. By Jacob Leibenluft On Tuesday, a Michigan court released yet another batch of romantic text messages sent between Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick and his former chief of staff Christine Beatty in 2002 and 2003. In the messages, Kilpatrick and Beatty — who are charged with perjury for denying their affair in court — professed their love to one another and graphically described their sexual encounters. If you delete an old text mess...

CAUTION ADVISED WHEN MAKING FANTASY TAPES! When I read this I was stunned. I really thought I was old enough and had been through enough that nothing would shock me. But some things still do. First this guy was a Judge. A judge who presided over divorces and child custody. The things you hear in those kinds of cases are pretty raw stuff. Second, I strong suspect this judge is a narcissistic sex addict. The bottom article should illuminate exactly why I think that. But this statement in the first article below was a huge clue: Hagler was relaxed and smiling at times during Wednesday's hearing. He said during a break that he had not heard the tape in the hands of police and could not be sure it was the one he recorded. "I hope it's my voice," he said. Always a huge red flag when someone is that flip, glib and denying with such bravado. A really ginormous red flag. We all have our private fantasies and sexual preferences. Fair enough. I have no desire to know abo...