NOWAK - VICTIM OF TOO MUCH EMOTIONAL ABUSE? Before I get jumped on for being anti-male, let me say, yes -- Lisa Nowak has some serious mental problems. And no I am NOT giving the woman a pass here for what she did - criminal assault & robbery. But how did she get here? Just another crazy, jealous gal ? Hmmm.... don't think so. As an anti-domestic violence counselor, something seems fishy here. Smelly fish too. And not just that diaper Nowak was wearing. Granted, I see everything through the lens of my own experience. Don't most of us? So let me ask: Why isn't Bill Oefelein being questioned more closely? He admitted he was seeing Nowak and another woman. I have a horrifying feeling he was playing narcissistic headgames with Nowak and she flipped out. I have experienced observing someone flipping out when a narcissistic type plays games with them . It's not pretty at all. And there's no talking to the victim when they snap - while the narcissist just ...