It's My "Blogiversary"!

WOW - 6 years on the net for Tchatzkahs and my other blog.
This blog has helped me in my ongoing recovery, find my voice and vent my feelings, grief and opinions. I have used my other blog in turning my life around and reaching out to help others heal from abuse or pathological relationships.

Thank you to everyone and anyone who ever read even one of my posts!!
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