Mr. Cook - You ARE A Scumbag, Ms. Walters - You're a Media Whore
Cook - you're a destructive narcissist. And Ms. Walters, you're a whore for giving this s**tbag a platform for his blame shifting, gaslighting, revisionist history and his lame, baseless excuses for his pathology & sex addiction!
Peter Cook Swears to Barbara Walters He's Not a ''Scum Bag Pervert''
Christie Brinkley's ex-husband Peter Cook sits down for his first interview since the nasty divorce trial that rocked headlines this past summer.
Barbara Walters nabbed the exclusive for 20/20. While we have yet to see the full video, ABC News promises that Walters covers "what went wrong, his affair with a teenager and the $300,000 payout to her, his reported $3,000-a-month Internet pornography addiction and why he was willing to have his dirtiest secrets revealed in the fight over access to their children after the divorce."
Christie Brinkley and Peter Cook reached an out-of-court settlement, but only after several days of trial testimony exposed lurid details of architect Cook's affair with a teenage assistant and his predilection for Internet porn.
Some Highlights: (I've embedded some links to show EXACTLY what Cook was REALLY doing or trying to do with this interview)
YOU'RE A DESTRUCTIVE, SEX-ADDICTED NARCISSIST, MR. COOK!! Stop blaming poor Ms. Brinkley for your selfish, sociopathic nonsense! (BTW - I have heard that "I swear" B.S. from every single pathological I have ever encountered.)
TRAITS OF A DESTRUCTIVE NARCISSIST
1. Self-centered. His needs are paramount.
2. No remorse for mistakes or misdeeds.
3. Unreliable, undependable.
4. Does not care about the consequences of his actions.
5. Projects his faults on to others. High blaming behavior; never his fault. (see Cook's interview for this!)
6. Little if any conscience.
7. Insensitive to needs and feelings of others.
8. Has a good front (persona) to impress and exploit others. (see Cook's interview for this!)
9. Low stress tolerance. Easy to anger and rage.
10. People are to be manipulated for his needs.
11. Rationalizes easily. Twists conversation to his gain at other’s expense. If trapped, keeps talking, changes the subject or gets angry. (see Cook's interview for this!)
12. Pathological lying. (see Cook's interview for this!)
13. Tremendous need to control situations, conversations, others. (see Cook's interview for this!)
14. No real values. Mostly situational.
15. Often perceived as caring and understanding and uses this to manipulate. (see Cook's interview for this!)
16. Angry, mercurial, moods.
17. Uses sex to control
18. Does not share ideas, feelings, emotions.
19. Conversation controller. Must have the first and last word.
20. Is very slow to forgive others. Hangs onto resentment.
21. Secret life. Hides money, friends, activities.
22. Likes to create chaos and disrupt for no reason.
23. Moody - switches from nice guy to anger without much provocation.
24. Repeatedly fails to honor financial obligations.
25. Seldom expresses appreciation.
26. Grandiose. Convinced he knows more than others and is correct in all he does. (see Cook's interview for this!)
27. Lacks ability to see how he comes across to others. Defensive when confronted with his behavior. Never his fault. (see Cook's interview for this!)
28. Can get emotional, tearful. This is about show or frustration rather than remorse.
29. He breaks woman's spirits to keep them dependent.
30. Needs threats, intimidations to keep others close to him.
31. Sabotages partner. Wants her to be happy only through him and to have few or no outside interests and acquaintances. (see Cook's interview for this!)
32. Highly contradictory. (see Cook's interview for this!)
33. Convincing. Must convince people to side with him. (see Cook's interview for this!)
34. Hides his real self. Always “on”.
35. Kind only if he's getting from you what he wants.
36. He has to be right. He has to win. He has to look good. (see Cook's interview for this!)
37. He announces, not discusses. He tells, not asks. (see Cook's interview for this!)
38. Does not discuss openly, has a hidden agenda.
39. Controls money of others but spends freely on himself.
40. Unilateral condition of, "I'm OK and justified so I don't need to hear your position or ideas" (see Cook's interview for this!)
41. Always feels misunderstood. (see Cook's interview for this!)
42. You feel miserable with this person. He drains you.
43. Does not listen because he does not care.
44. His feelings are discussed, not the partners. (see Cook's interview for this!)
45. Is not interested in problem-solving.
46. Very good at reading people, so he can manipulate them. Sometimes called gaslighting.
SOURCE
SEE ALSO:
PHRASES ABUSERS LOVE TO USE
THE MYTHS OF INFIDELITY
Peter Cook Swears to Barbara Walters He's Not a ''Scum Bag Pervert''
Christie Brinkley's ex-husband Peter Cook sits down for his first interview since the nasty divorce trial that rocked headlines this past summer.
Barbara Walters nabbed the exclusive for 20/20. While we have yet to see the full video, ABC News promises that Walters covers "what went wrong, his affair with a teenager and the $300,000 payout to her, his reported $3,000-a-month Internet pornography addiction and why he was willing to have his dirtiest secrets revealed in the fight over access to their children after the divorce."
Christie Brinkley and Peter Cook reached an out-of-court settlement, but only after several days of trial testimony exposed lurid details of architect Cook's affair with a teenage assistant and his predilection for Internet porn.
Some Highlights: (I've embedded some links to show EXACTLY what Cook was REALLY doing or trying to do with this interview)
- Why Did He Have an Affair with Diana Bianchi? "I was seeking a connection I could not find in my own marriage. I think the emotional aspect of our lives had changed. I think we were both feeling more like we were living with a brother and sister than a life partner. I think I just suddenly realized when I was getting attention from someone else that this is something that is missing in my life."
- Why Is He Speaking Out Now? "My hope is that the world will see that I'm not the scum bag pervert that I've been painted to be," he said. "The misinformation that came out during the trial is the elephant in the room. It's the elephant in the room for my kids. And I'm hoping maybe if I can correct some of the wrongs."
- Will Brinkley See His Interview? "I don't think I can avoid that. But I think if she does, what I hope comes of it is that she takes the time to heal herself. And she goes back and remembers that I made a mistake, but that I am that person that she wrote the poems about, that she raved about in magazine articles and anybody who she could get & twist their ear to listen. I am that person today, that I was then."
YOU'RE A DESTRUCTIVE, SEX-ADDICTED NARCISSIST, MR. COOK!! Stop blaming poor Ms. Brinkley for your selfish, sociopathic nonsense! (BTW - I have heard that "I swear" B.S. from every single pathological I have ever encountered.)
TRAITS OF A DESTRUCTIVE NARCISSIST
1. Self-centered. His needs are paramount.
2. No remorse for mistakes or misdeeds.
3. Unreliable, undependable.
4. Does not care about the consequences of his actions.
5. Projects his faults on to others. High blaming behavior; never his fault. (see Cook's interview for this!)
6. Little if any conscience.
7. Insensitive to needs and feelings of others.
8. Has a good front (persona) to impress and exploit others. (see Cook's interview for this!)
9. Low stress tolerance. Easy to anger and rage.
10. People are to be manipulated for his needs.
11. Rationalizes easily. Twists conversation to his gain at other’s expense. If trapped, keeps talking, changes the subject or gets angry. (see Cook's interview for this!)
12. Pathological lying. (see Cook's interview for this!)
13. Tremendous need to control situations, conversations, others. (see Cook's interview for this!)
14. No real values. Mostly situational.
15. Often perceived as caring and understanding and uses this to manipulate. (see Cook's interview for this!)
16. Angry, mercurial, moods.
17. Uses sex to control
18. Does not share ideas, feelings, emotions.
19. Conversation controller. Must have the first and last word.
20. Is very slow to forgive others. Hangs onto resentment.
21. Secret life. Hides money, friends, activities.
22. Likes to create chaos and disrupt for no reason.
23. Moody - switches from nice guy to anger without much provocation.
24. Repeatedly fails to honor financial obligations.
25. Seldom expresses appreciation.
26. Grandiose. Convinced he knows more than others and is correct in all he does. (see Cook's interview for this!)
27. Lacks ability to see how he comes across to others. Defensive when confronted with his behavior. Never his fault. (see Cook's interview for this!)
28. Can get emotional, tearful. This is about show or frustration rather than remorse.
29. He breaks woman's spirits to keep them dependent.
30. Needs threats, intimidations to keep others close to him.
31. Sabotages partner. Wants her to be happy only through him and to have few or no outside interests and acquaintances. (see Cook's interview for this!)
32. Highly contradictory. (see Cook's interview for this!)
33. Convincing. Must convince people to side with him. (see Cook's interview for this!)
34. Hides his real self. Always “on”.
35. Kind only if he's getting from you what he wants.
36. He has to be right. He has to win. He has to look good. (see Cook's interview for this!)
37. He announces, not discusses. He tells, not asks. (see Cook's interview for this!)
38. Does not discuss openly, has a hidden agenda.
39. Controls money of others but spends freely on himself.
40. Unilateral condition of, "I'm OK and justified so I don't need to hear your position or ideas" (see Cook's interview for this!)
41. Always feels misunderstood. (see Cook's interview for this!)
42. You feel miserable with this person. He drains you.
43. Does not listen because he does not care.
44. His feelings are discussed, not the partners. (see Cook's interview for this!)
45. Is not interested in problem-solving.
46. Very good at reading people, so he can manipulate them. Sometimes called gaslighting.
SOURCE
SEE ALSO:
PHRASES ABUSERS LOVE TO USE
THE MYTHS OF INFIDELITY
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